KICKIN' IT! BLOG

A 10 year-old reminded me of some great advice.

A student came to class last night to work on her kata. She had recently been half-striped, she wanted her full stripe and so she came to do a private lesson with the goal of receiving the other half of her stripe. During her lesson, she performed her kata and when she finished, Jacob and I looked at each other in amazement at how much her kata has improved.

This student is a dream student. She comes to class regularly, does her two classes, tries hard, does it with a smile and then goes home. Nothing more, nothing less. Same thing every week.

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I come from a line of really amazing women.

My grandmother was an amazing artist that sewed, knitted, played sports with me and taught my mom how to ride a bike even though she had no clue.

Make mistakes!

For all of us, undoubtedly, our greatest learning moments come when we make mistakes.

When we make mistakes, screw up, drop the ball, as long as we pay attention to what’s happened, we will learn from it.

Nature provides exceptions to every rule.

When I was young, I would daydream about my life as an adult. I designed a lifestyle where every decision was easy because everything was black and white.

Everything fit perfectly into their spots.

The importance of caring.

A funny thing happened to me in class once and it made me realize something really important.

A student was trying for their first stripe, they didn’t meet their physical requirements and so they didn’t receive their stripe. This doesn’t happen often, but it certainly happens.

Why do we all do this? It doesn’t make sense.

There’s a funny thing that happens in the martial arts. Ask any martial arts teacher and they’ll back me up on this…

In fact, even if you’ve never trained, I guarantee that you’ve done it too.

What REALLY determines what we are is…

I remember hearing an idea once and it totally changed my life.  It was so simple and it offered me infinite hope.

Just a few days ago, I was reading Harry Potter with my daughter and Dumbledore recited nearly the exact same thing and I thought that if Dumbledore is going to offer similar wisdom, well then it must apply to more people than just myself.

Failure doesn’t mean ‘No’, it just means ‘Not right now.’

A funny thing happens when I’m teaching a new technique or concept.  Students will give it a try and then they will fall into one of two categories…

1. They get it…
2. They didn’t get it…

After that, the second group usually says one of two things…

When you want to build courage and strength, try this.

Last week I was speaking to a student at the school and we started talking about experiences and how they build courage.  I was telling him that I was thinking about doing something totally new and that it really scared me.  It was something that was really outside of my comfort zone.

When you need to achieve something big, you need this…

When I first started my training, I remember having a few training partners that were really great partners and influenced my development as a martial artist by pushing me to improve.

In BJJ, I’ve been working on a glitch that I have in my game and so this week, two of my friends just helped me drill a specific thing.  I don’t think that I have it down 100% but I’m definitely better than I was before and my partners certainly helped.